Bonny Wilder was born on July 27, 1955 to the parents of Mr. and Mrs. Jimbo Wilder. He attended Crandall High School in Crandall,  Texas.

He married Constance Wilson and to this union two children Bonny and John Wilson.  Two more children Danna Scott and Ladiamond   Wilder & stepdaughter Destiny Seaton, His wife Connie.

He is preceded in death by his brothers: Antone, Jimmy, JoDan and Horse, Rav and two sister: Jerry and Pealie.

He also have 11 grandchildren and 7 great grandchildren that loves him. He has a special friend for 25 years Sonya and 3 aunts:  T, Bobby & Jarome Wilder.